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Slow and steady wins the race

 This week Mums Doctors arranged a family meeting to bring us up to speed with where Mum is at.  We had the meeting this morning which proved to be very valuable at painting the big picture for us. Although there have been regular visits, information has come in fragments which can leave you feeling like you are missing something.  This information void will no doubt feel familiar to you, so let's see if I can fill that in a little for you.  Mum hasn't made as much progress as we had hoped in the last 4 weeks.  This has been concerning for us but is pretty well explained.  Mum has been dealing with some other complications with things such as blood pressure which have meant that the rehab team haven't been able to be as affective as they would have liked.  Every time Mum stood up, her blood pressure would drop and the rehab would have to stop. In the past week they have mostly got on top of this and have seen some change in the right direction. The phy...

Visiting time is over - time for focus

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I was up in Wellington for a long weekend last week and noticed how busy it has been. Between, nurses doing check ups and taking observations, Physio, speech therapists, occupational therapists, doctors, meals, trying to drink a litre of water and visitors, there is not a whole lot of time for Mum to spend by herself.   We have had discussions with Mum about this and feel that it will be better for her long term recovery to restrict visiting to her immediate family for the time being. On behalf of the family, thank you for all of your support and kind messages. With the shock of the stroke the massive amount of support Mum has received from friends and family has been a huge boost.  It has been a scary time and Mum has felt very loved and cared for whist she adjusted to the realities of where she has to start her rehabilitation from.   We are getting a better sense of the cadence of recovery.  Unfortunately, there won't be massive breakthroughs that make fo...

High spirits

 I popped in to see Mum on Tuesday evening and she was in pretty good spirits.  She seemed less tired than the last time I saw her, even though I arrived just before the end of visiting hours. She has had a wide range of visitors from family and friends to physio and occupational therapists, it's all go. The physio is getting Mum to do an exercise whereby she interlocks the fingers of both hands and uses her left arm to assist her raising her right arm.  In typical fashion Mum demonstrated this exercise a number of times during my visit, she is really focused on goals. Her goal for tomorrow morning is to make her own breakfast. Mum has really enjoyed all the visits she has had and we went through a number of her photos of Mike and Hugo, it was great to see her face light up as we looked at a number of Hugo's photos.  Mum was also showing off her fingers as her lifelong friend Jenny has been in giving her a manicure which she was really pleased with. Mum has also been...

Another Day, Another Room

 Amanda, Hugo and I visited Mum a couple of times today.  It was the first time I had seen her in a few weeks.  I was very impressed to see her so chatty and in good spirits.  She was sitting in her chair when we arrived and having lunch: Soup, eggs with gravy, ice cream and jelly. The soup looked good, mum thought the eggs and gravy was an interesting combination. She left the gravy. The nurse reported that the doctors want Mum to drink more water with threats of putting her back on an IV.  1 L a day.  When you have to go through a 6 step process for each swallow 1 L is pretty daunting.  We tried to encourage her, but Hugo found the best way was just to drink some for her.  Later he spilt some on the floor which Mum was very pleased about: "Anything to empty that Jug!" She had a good sleep during the day which was well needed as she is still having some trouble sleeping at night. Hopefully tonight will be better.  We will be up in Wellington...

Change of scene

 We just heard Mum has moved to the Rehabilitation centre at Kenepuru Hospital. Ward 6, room 8.   -Mike

Coffee Please

 Mum had a videofluoroscopy today which is a moving x-ray examination of swallowing. She has been given the all clear to drink fluids. This is the first step to rehab. They offered her some coffee this morning but Mum declined.  Turns out it was instant coffee.  I guess she is hanging out for the real thing! -Mike

Day 5 On the move

It's been a pretty positive day to today, firstly Mum's moved to a room of her own which is great and provides her with a bit more privacy.  Additionally the hospital has been making enquiries about Mum being relocated to Kenepuru Hospital, subject to there being space.  This isn't likely to  happen for another two or three days but is still a positive sign.   Mum had a session with the physios today and apparently they were happy with how Mum was progressing. Mum was able to initiate minor movement of her right foot this evening, which was really pleasing.  The speech therapist was in again today and has given Mum a bunch of classic phrases to practice, which Mum was handling really well. Mum is enjoying being able to eat food  again and it continues to be a source of great commentary. The staff at the hospital are doing a great job and being so helpful. From the family I also wanted to say a huge thank you for all the messages we have received and of...